Defining changing relationship

Defining changing relationship

“It’s easy to break the iron chains, but it’s not possible to break the chains of flowers.” The meaning of the phrase is now being misinterpreted. People are easily forgetting the basics of blood relations, family ties. The blood relatives living under one roof are emotionally attached to a rope, which is called a family. Father, mother, Grand father, Grand mother, son, daughter, grandson and granddaughter all respect the elders for accepting unwritten, unannounced discipline. It is this constitution that sets each family apart from other families. Every member of the family has their own personality, earning capacity, will, and reluctance, but collective opinion and emotion are given equal importance when making any final decision. Discipline is not a compulsion to accept the opinion of others, but a recognition of reform and devotion, devotion. All members of the family are bound by affection and affection.
Solidarity can also be an important factor in family unity. Because one person fulfills the needs of the whole family. Naturally, he makes all the family decisions. Others support the decision made for the good of the family. The boys also help the father from time to time to meet the needs of the child. It is the responsibility of the family to provide for the family, the son, the daughter, the house, the house, the sale and purchase of land, and the family. But now the family’s money has changed. Many members of the family are now able to earn a living. For the betterment of the family, most people are more concerned with their own well-being than their own. As a result, the number of family members has declined in recent years.
“Small families, happy families.” But the backbone of the family is waiting to be debated how far it would be reasonable to deny the sacrifices of the father and mother. Second, not all family members live under one roof today. Personal opinion is more important than collective opinion. Even many members of a family have not been able to get together for years. It is true that the education received for the purpose of earning a living is able to provide a livelihood but is forgetting the moral values. Continuing efforts to maintain the status quo with the family through mechanical means have not been able to help keep the relationship close. Over time, the distance from each other to the mental level increases. Even now, human beings do not shy away from taking the lives of relatives for the sake of little self-interest. It is unnecessary to give an example of this.
So why is the blood relationship fading? Why is man becoming selfish, selfish, cruel today? Perhaps the easiest answer to this question is ‘hope for happiness’. In spite of all these great and far-reaching efforts to be happy, can man truly be happy or continue to fall into a delusion and ruin himself? If you look at any family, you will see that a man walks away from a joint family just to keep his wife, son, and daughter happy, to fulfil their desires. The head of the family does not think it is wrong to do anything immoral just to keep his small family happy. Although money is a big factor behind it, mental well-being can be a big factor behind it. We cannot say that degrading the quality of life by increasing the standard of living of various machines in a competitive society; Because various scientific inventions meet human needs. The fact is that humans are using it in different ways. As a result, it behaves like a machine slave instead of a slave machine.
There is no place for moral education in today’s society. The textbook, designed only for the purpose of gaining money (energy), is making man a means of making money, of machine building, of machine control, love is not able to understand himself, to control his thoughts and feelings, to use his physical and mental strength. Today’s people are often unable to tell the difference between right and wrong. Today’s educated youth are controlling many people by joining the ranks of high-ranking officials of a large company but failing to control themselves. Blaming others for their unsettled body, stress, pain, annoyed feelings, becoming intolerant of others; Feeling we have ‘Run out of gas’ emotionally. Surprisingly, the man who made hundreds of friends on social media and shared his feelings with them is moving away from his own people! A man who is very lonely, away from relatives and friends, loses control of himself during the difficult times of life and chooses a path of addiction or suicide.
Now not only will the problem be solved but the source of the poisonous seed will also have to be found. Why this downfall of man? Even though the city is a village, today it is full of temples, places of worship, mosques, churches. Crowds are increasing day by day, the business of various devotional music, starting with worship materials, is growing, the sales of various spiritual books, the audience of discourses is increasing, the interest of the people to attain true education; So how is the father conspiring to kill the son, the wife the husband?
  • Prakash Ranjan Parida
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